By Ellen Andersen
I’d started down the street, taking Tommy for a walk last week. Five minutes later, I discovered God had more in mind for me than simply a short stroll. I’d walked into a ministry. When Tommy and I were about halfway down the street, my neighbor stepped out of her house and called to me.
“Ellen.” I turned to my right.
“Hi Jo.”
“Are you going to Bi-Lo?”
“No. I’m just taking Tommy for a short walk.”
“Oh.” Her face fell. “I was hoping someone was going to Bi-Lo. I need some cream cheese for some pies and a cake I want to make for my grandkids this weekend and it’s too far for me to drive. I can’t drive that far anymore.” (Jo’s in her late eighties and is rather frail.)
I walked about 3 more steps then turned around, deciding it wouldn’t be a big deal to pick up something at the store. I told her I would go for her.
“Oh, great! I just need some cream cheese—four packages. It’s on sale this week. And you know, that milk stuff in the can. I don’t remember what it’s called.
“Evaporated milk?” I suggested.
“Yeah, that. I need two of those. I’m making dessert for when my grandkids come. And I need . . .”
I laughed and said, “You’re going to have to write this stuff down, Jo. I’m not gonna remember it all.”
“Oh sure. I will.” Jo ambled into her house, doing her best to balance with her walker. She found a piece of paper and a pen, and dug out her advertisement with the sales on it. Sure enough, cream cheese was on sale. She put Campbells’ tomato soup and cream of mushroom soup (two each please) along with three or four more items on her list. I had to smile.
Jo took some money out of her purse and handed it to me. “I think this will be enough,” she said. “Do you want more?” I assured her it’d be plenty.
Because she can’t drive more than around the corner, she’s usually cooped up at home.
“Do you want me to come with you? To help you?” she asked. She hoped I’d yes so she could get out of the house, not because she thought I needed help. I declined, telling her I’m not strong enough to help her balance. I could just see the two of us in trouble walking in the parking lot. Puppy dog eyes begged me to take her with me, but safety comes first. I walked Tommy home then drove to the store.
I don’t shop at Bi-Lo so I had no idea where to find things for her. Fortunately, I’m not shy about asking for help. I spotted some people who seemed to know where things were and they pointed me in the right direction. One lady even took me to exactly what I needed a couple aisles down.
Twenty minutes later, I arrived back at Jo’s, groceries in hand. She stood outside, smiling as I pulled up. Jo tried to take a bag from me.
“It’s okay, Jo. I’ve got it.”
“I don’t want it to be too heavy for you” she said.
“Thanks Jo, but it’s not too heavy. Really.”
We walked into her house, put everything on the counter and stuck the cream cheese in the fridge. I handed her a little over six dollars in change. Jo tried to give me a dollar for having gone. “For the gas”, she said. I declined. It was just down the street.
A few days later, Jo spotted me as she headed home from the mailbox. She headed toward me and said, “I made the pie for my grandkids. They really liked it.” She proceeded to tell me about their time together.
It was such a small thing to do, but getting those things for her at the store meant a lot to Jo and she had a great time with her grandkids. Little favors can mean a lot to someone. Even just a mile’s drive to the store.
I love this small act of kindness, Ellen. We all need to be open to helping our neighbor. ☺
What a beautiful blessing to be able to shop for someone else! A small act of kindness can mean the world to another person. 🙂 Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Thanks . You’re absolutely right. It’s amazing how much we can “do” without doing much.
What a sweet story, Ellen and an even sweeter ministry. That’s all it took was a few minutes of your time to do what was big in someone else’s life. Thanks for sharing that reminder.
Indeed. It doesn’t take a lot. Something for us to think on as we go about our days.
This is just lovely. Sometimes its just about being available, isn’t it? I pray God would allow me to be used that way and not think of it as an inconvenience. Thanks for sharing!
It requires getting outside ourselves and recognizing God may want to use us in someone else’s life.